Some of these Bloggers Yoh!

Is our generation shallow? Like not analytical, critical or even relevant enough for our own good? Are we the generation that would rather just take pics of their babies and cute family post them on Instagram rather than actually ‘work on our relationship with those kids?’ Do we really believe that these relationships can be built this way? Are we the kind of women who simply sleep with the man we want to marry on the first or second date and hope that he will still stay? The generation that does not know what delayed gratification is and how good that feels, the generation that will pick money and travelling over love? Is there something wrong with us? I say maybe, but isn’t there something wrong with everyone? Actually no, absolutely nothing is wrong with us. We are just imperfect. Our parents have constantly taught us this, growing up. In fact, it is, if anyone’s fault, mostly theirs that we turned out the way we did. Have you seen the divorce and separation statistics? Anyway, I am giving everyone a break as we all should. It is really never that serious. I mean we take it too far sometimes. The blogs, I would like a good read sometime. There are unfortunately very few relevant bloggers to read about in this country. I am not one of them because mine is not to be known but just share real genuine thoughts. But there are these extremely annoying posts on how badly behaving Kenyan women and high school students are at parties. Each time I see it, I throw my hands up, I give up you know why? Because they are at a party why do they have to behave at all?  The worst part is these bloggers do not even type the word sex, they use the numeral 3 in the place of e like s3x and I am shaking my damn head because, how the hell are you about to investigate something you cannot openly talk about. It is really very immature if you ask me I say grow the hell up. It completely okay to be mildly opinionated if you are trying to be controversial but sometimes, a few not all, and mostly the s3xtyping kind, are just completely stupid.

I genuinely wish that some Kenyan blogs would be either realistic or reasonable and not just blindly judgmental and opinionated. Then I might just join the party and we could sit together on our laptops at two am and have an exchange. I would set some time for it I promise just to laugh with them all or share real ideas if the content falls on either of these sides and is not the result of day spent looking at people by the edge some bad glasses with poorly done eyebrows. I am sorry; I am among the least judgmental people in the world top of the list.  I swear if there was Forbes for least judgmental twenty five under twenty five, I would be up there without a parachute not ever landing. But do not do something stupid and quote this post. I have done my best to explain imperfection; I am also very good at practicing it.

The best part is that we were never meant to be perfect. In fact we human beings hate perfection so much we brutally murdered the Son of God for being perfect. He forgave us, see that’s why He’s perfect and we are not and that is why we can talk about our imperfections here and laugh about it instead of killing ourselves over it. I’m telling you; we are that flawed generation and the solution is not to lecture girls on learning how to cook and not having sponsors. I mean, do we all not make our decisions soundly? No I do not think it is in trying to change young men from who they have chosen to be. In fact, I do not believe in changing anyone. I just believe in understanding that we are already adults; hopefully that’s who’s reading this. And I hope we understand what that means, that we do not have to agree with the actions of others but we ought to respect them regardless. That we choose to live our lives despite and not because of what other people choose to do with their lives. Seriously though let us get our gluts up enjoy this ride, it is after all, a free world.