Thursday, 17 April 2014

Woman thou art...

A yoke so much resembles the scales. It's a burden everyone has. Just how much does it weigh over your shoulders? And how does the extension or rather man's cloned image balance over herself? She is a new being you have no idea how new. Cliche because it's true, but the only hard thing about new stuff, is how to make it work. So woman, who art thou?

Woman, thou art blessed. Not that a man isn't but she is my topic. I am an introspectionist and even though am not talking about myself, it is an extrapolation of the image into which I am made. A woman. I am also a creationist and I believe that angels and God's elders are all males and a woman is the only female that was created of God's image. Of course from man's image. How do I know this? Simple facts, I never heard angel Suzie or Cate and I do not wish to complicate that matter. Anyway, a woman is the only daughter God has, having the rest as sons. At times she is even called a son, smh. A woman is created for the roles we know, companionship for Adam, procreation, recreation blah, blah, blah, u know it. See the weird thing is that all these roles overtake us. They displace us on our own paths so that we do not understand them.

Procreation is something that goes beyond having babies. Oh, that's my main point today. To procreate means to reproduce or to create anew. That is the ability that she was given, not only on babies but in her work as well. It means that she is capable of multiplying whatever she puts herself to and this includes career, family and anything she wishes to grace. So this is about a very contemporary matter. No it's not about contraception,  it's about work. Women and work. More precisely, career women.

Firstly, a good woman works hard. My culture, school, that's the gospel. Now whether a woman is good or not, her hard work will still pay off. The moment she decides to work, she multiplies whatever her hands touch. She is like good soil and seeds sprout at her touch like Jack's beanstalk. So, given the same opportunities, a woman is likely to make more than a man in all legit sense. There are men out there who will contend all day against a woman working hard and making more than he is and a woman who has herself together. It isn't a competition. Furthermore, there are worse problems in the society today like global warming. I just want to let women know how much good they have in them and to men, a woman who can work hard, that is a good woman.Back to the matter, and to it's heart. Brace yourself.

If a woman knew her abilities and roles then she would do so much than worry. No she doesn't have to sleep with bosses. A mistake many make all the same. It's like bargaining for something you don't need to ask for because you already have. Of course you should draft your CV like a good brand, but if you already have the qualifications then all else is unnecessary. And it's not easy but then no good thing comes so easy. A woman will however get what she is working for if she is determined enough. Always. It's her feminine grace. She wasn't made the head or given muscles and a harsh deep voice to survive on earth. She was given grace, compassion and all that.

The only way you will lead a fulfilled life is if you understand who you are. You are beautiful, you are special and you are precious. And you do not have to contend with people who ask, why are you all that? Because. I do not intend to bruise anyones ego but it is equally important for men to understand who they are. Unless you understand and seriously comprehend who you are then it's impossible to tell someone else who they are. You will be there like' who does she think she is?' When the real question is 'who does she know she is? '
Let me also make it very clear that I am anti feminist, a topic for another day. For today, the roles you are made for shouldn't define you. They are just but roles. Nevertheless, play them if you can, women's seem less domineering,  that is not weakness, it is strength. Be good at what you were made for. As for men, try to do the same because I have seen tons of you who are ever pointing fingers at women who live wrong. They are not right, but by not playing your part, you are not any better than they are. You are leaders, heads, play that. Not through intimidation and using your strengths to take advantage of what you should protect. Instead be noble even for the sake of adventure. I've met very noble men. It's just the world. You decide where to be and it's not easy. So this here, is just consolation.

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