Who is to blame??

I get it, it’s wrong for women especially young ladies to depend on guys for dough and that and that... so women have turned to working and being hard workers and learned to depend on themselves. Again, which is good and with negative effects at the same time. I just wonder, those guys who always think women want from them, financially (note, am not against a woman submitting to her husband or wanting to be protected matter of fact women should submit to they husbands). It’s all the same detestable to wait entirely on guys to make your finances). Am just asking are these men against the habit because they indeed get pissed at women who depend so much, or are they people who don't like responsibility at all. Cause, the ladies aside, you have yourself to deal with. Is your responsibility dependent on women?? Are they the only issue or is there something bigger you need to deal with as a person???

I believe the whole "Miss Independent" thing is a consequence of men pushing so much at women to be their own heroes (stolen). They are so much against the very ones they should protect, and what choice does a woman have but to survive by herself. Apparently men are men because they should take care of women (I don't mean be taken advantage of, which I don't understand either). Instead of taking care of this woman, they take advantage of her. No they don't protect her no more. So how easy is it for her to trust and submit? So they complain much about "women these days" and "women of this age."

So let's face it, the ladies go wrong. WE ladies, but then men have a role to play in it as women have a role to play in men’s' going wrong. It only us on the planet, so someone is responsible for the drama and it’s BOTH of US. Let not men blame it on the ladies and start with admitting to what there is to admit, that they contributed too. Now that's the first take to MANNING UP. Men were made leaders and the heads. Believe it or not, we know that. Unfortunately, women don't want just to be led. We want to be led by someone with direction. We NEED someone we can TRUST.

Now we ladies have our shortcomings, which are of course, more. Far from the blame game, we can't stand if there is nothing to lean on. All the same we should work on our issues and be the best we can. We should be responsible too and know how to treat people and that and that...

Life is personal, but then we need each other. The least is to play our roles the best way we can and pray and beg the LORD to help us know who we are. It is hard to know your role if you don't know who you are. The sad thing is this identity crisis is evident at the most crucial age. It is very rampant in us young adults. Titus 2:6, “young men likewise, exhort to be sober minded.”  I still believe remaining sober in our thinking and general life is the greatest challenge we have. The Bible encourages us to be so we may find direction, but clearly that is what the enemy fights in us most for the exact opposite reason. So we may NOT find direction. Stealing us (by lies), destroying us (by confusing us) and then kills us. Jesus said I AM the Way (finding direction), the Truth (staying sober) and the life (being sustained in who He is so we may enjoy LIFE).

There is no other way but our Maker.